You know how to call ‘em Pegs. The last week or two not-with-standing, I do have a history of enjoying a drink and then a drink too many, for sure. But the past 3-4 months I have really tried to limit my drinking, the amount, when, and where. And during this time, I’ve continued to see a decline in the quality of my relationship with my husband. I have been riding a wave of relative contentment (outside of lack of physicality with him), but I’ve seen that start to change. I’m becoming bitter and detached. I don’t feel loved and so I conclude I am unlovable. I am keen on knowing that Ubciuld easily slip into a dark place, and so I did reach out to a T I had been seeing about a year ago. Long story short, she agrees that something’s broken in the marriage, and that in its current state it isn’t working. She recommends couples counseling too. Not with her, but with someone else. Not sure how to approach that one with my hubby. I’m gonna try again to be physical with him this time, and ask that he try, otherwise we will need to do this herapy thing.