Fact is, I have discussed my feelings with my husband. I’ve used gentle and loving terms, direct and emotional statements, I’ve carved out nights and mornings to spend time with him without the kids so that we can try to reconnect, but it usually comes up short. I was bound and determined last night to not let another day quietly slip away with just another “goodnight peck”. So I told him I didn’t care if he was “tired” or if it was almost midnight. I told him that we were gonna “do it” in the night and the morning! And we did, 11:55PM-12:05 AM. Short and sweet. But it’s a start. Long overdue. Next time he can call the shots, but I hope he doesn’t make me wait.