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Originally Posted by Carmina
Tried dating sites, on and off. I don't think I'm interesting enough or something. Don't really go out socially. Do go to some activity based groups but they are all with women who are in relationships - as is the case at work.
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From what I’ve seen (and keep in mind I’m only 26, so this may not be 100% true for everybody), a lot of people make friends through connections, just like people make jobs through connections. You basically know someone who “knows a really nice guy” or “my bff has a great guy friend who likes the same stuff as you!”
You just have to be open and courageous, and say, “hey, I’m looking into getting back into dating.” You’d be surprised with how much people will try to help. It’s just that initial fearful step that holds a lot of people back.
You never know. Maybe one of those women has a good guy friend even though she’s in a relationship. Or maybe she’s friends with a girl who’s brother is looking to date. But the only way to find out is to be open about your dating interests.
How about trying that? Same sort of advice goes for boogie for looking for girlfriends. It’s about utilizing your connections