Imho, we "older" women come with many positive labels!
We know what we want especially in bed. We're seen as Independent, self reliant, mature & very confident in our sexuality. We've done the milestones in life of younger women, we want more.

I think this is what younger men might see in us.....not all of us & might not be true of all of us either.

But we're not entering the wet t shirt contest at spring break either. We are now valued for what we possess. I feel this might put older men or men our age off.

Just what I see & just my opinion.