Yes I was thinking the same.

With a married man there are no strings attached as he’s already attached to his wife. When I had affairs they were always with married men, as I was too. We were on equal playing ground. No worries about it going further. That is, until one of them went through a divorce and wanted me to leave spouse. He wanted me to just uproot my life and run off with him across the county - very selfish man.

I admit to my affairs - and certainly not proud of them - to warn others of the dangers they pose to your emotional health. Not worth it!!!