well..saluk....does it matter how you got him if thats what you want'd ?

I have learned that a women REALLY wants a man with "confidence ".....at first, in every action they make,
it can be about money, bedroom , handyman work around the house, going out on the town

of course this is just my opinion

but i feel your statement sterotypes all men that are not shy and lack confidence, as jerks

not that i really care..but if you wanted a man like this that is not a jerk, don't just give up because you think they don't exist and settle for something lacking...cause you think its just a myth

but if you are happy with what you got

why worry ? thats all that matters

but I am far from shy and hope that don't make me a jerk LOL