>> Funny Thing Kell,,,, We sometimes to need control,,,,,,one supporting factor of that is silence ,,,,, Like a game " I can not talk longer than you . "

.A good ice - breaker is ,,, Oh You have my file > <....I been looking every where for that ,,,

Then Kell ( take control ) ..........Ask T "Well since you have seen my file ,,,,,where do we go from here ? "...

Listen closely to what T says,,,,this should help your responce and in time You May share more ...Hugs Friend.