This psychologist decided I hadn’t made “significant change” because I didn’t want to get involved with some job (With some aquaintances irl) So as I hadn’t made “significant change” - as in having empathy for family who had no empathy for me, and agreeing to do a job I had no interest in... I wasn’t “well” enough for therapy. He was bored with me, he said I wasn’t “endearing” and progress was too “slow” (he said the latter in a much crueler way)