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Originally Posted by Fuzzybear
This psychologist decided I hadn’t made “significant change” because I didn’t want to get involved with some job (With some aquaintances irl) So as I hadn’t made “significant change” - as in having empathy for family who had no empathy for me, and agreeing to do a job I had no interest in... I wasn’t “well” enough for therapy. He was bored with me, he said I wasn’t “endearing” and progress was too “slow” (he said the latter in a much crueler way)   |
So sorry to hear this, but not shocked.
"Significant change" sounds like one of those phrases they use when they're overworked and under-resourced and trying to force people through the system.
To others who haven't experienced it... yes, they really will make the patient feel they are to blame for these things.
Fuzzy, so sorry. It's hurtful. Especially to open-hearted, sensitive people.
Once, I had to pretend I was taking an antidepressant so I could get therapy.