Thread: Is it wrong to look up to people
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Old Oct 25, 2017, 03:18 PM
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She also complained about me to all the hourly mgrs and district mgr. I feel horrible that she has to talk about me like that.
She's having others communicate with you for two reasons:

1. She's protecting herself. It's possible HR told her to limit all interactions with you. So she has others give you directions or assignments.

2. From a personal safety perspective, she's probably trying to minimize any encouragement of your behavior by not interacting with you. You were stalking her. She is trying to protect herself.

All the consequences you are seeing are from your own behavior. You're blaming it on her being mean. She's not being mean. She's most likely following directions from HR and her boss about how to deal with your inappropriate behavior, and she's also protecting herself from a situation that could potentially become even more aggressive if she doesn't give you the attention you seek.

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