I've been out of my last relationship for about year and a half. I'm a male and I've had to deal with many situations like this with women over the past year and a half. Unfortunately both men and women especially today can't seem to make a decision and love themselves. The more you love yourself, the more you can love and respect others. He's being toyed with and he is toying with you.

The decision is yours, but what he is doing to you is not healthy. He's not telling you the truth, stringing you along, not committing, and has his focus somewhere else. This guy has to figure out his life and not toy with you. That's not cool.