I really didn’t feel like I was doing anything wrong at that time. I did those behaviors for several months, but it was in the last 2 weeks that she got mad about it. Before she ever got mad about it, a coworker already saw what was happening. That coworker even pointed out in a not so nice way that I was bothering my supervisor. I then went to my supervisor about it and worded what my coworker said. My supervisor went, “You’re not bothering me. What she said is not nice.” However, my supervisor did say it looks like I always wanted to say something to her whenever I came in on my days off.

Was it possible that she was just bearing it before she flipped?

Another time, my shift ended and a classmate texted me to meet her on campus. After I finished meeting with him, I returned to my workplace and stayed there til my supervisor got off. Another coworker asked why I came back, to which I couldn’t answer. My supervisor told me to go home shortly before she also clocked out. She asked me why I didn’t go home but hung around there instead. I said bc I was cold.

My car was parked next to hers, so as she left, I walked out with her. I must point out that I often walk out with her when we leave the store together. Most of those times, my shift has ended hours ago but I waited for her to get off.

The trigger point that got her mad was when I listened in on her conversation with the district manager. Then she brought up not only that incident, but also all the time I always came to see her on my days off. She hadn’t been mad about that before, but maybe she was just bearing it until she couldn’t anymore.

Now I know I’m wrong, but I didn’t used to.