i was wondering.... what makes you cry infront of T? What does T do when he/she sees that first tear? How do you let yourself feel in therapy? i never feel the tears coming when im with T, but the second i get in the car i explode. Then i cry even more later once i think about and "process" what was said. I don't know why, but it's really important for me to cry infront of T. I REALLY want to be able to show her my pain with tears, and i want to feel her comfort. Its just, for some reason the tears never come! its like, most times i cry about missing people. T being the biggest. So when im in session, i can't ever cry because i'm WITH her, so inside i'm not sad at all, because whatever feelings may be hurting, i'm with T, and that in itself comforts. Then as soon as i leave and i'm left alone with those hurting feelings, i cry. I want to cry IN session so these feelings can be worked on. how do i get the tears to come???