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Old Oct 25, 2017, 08:48 PM
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Originally Posted by toomanycats View Post
Oh NP, I'm so sorry.
Did he offer up anything that he could do instead?
I mean, ok, he feels he can't physically be there because boundaries -- it'd help if he said "not because I don't want to; only because I am not allowed to" and maybe, idk, offered to schedule a phone call immediately before and after? At least expressed his care and concern by offering as much as he can give.

((((NP)))) You do matter... you do.
He didn't offer anything. It sounds like he is leaving town that day too. It might have been easier to take if he had just lied and told me that. I'm glad he was honest about it though. I don't like being lied to.

He tried hard at the end of our session to make me feel important and cared for, he said he was very invested in me. But honestly, I was feeling too abandoned to absorb everything he said. I even left a little early. He kept trying to tell me we had a few minutes left, but I had nothing left to say.
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