There isn't any physical abuse, only one episode ever, it is the emotional stuff, everything he says and acts and I can't take it, I should have a tough shell for it, but I don't. He tells me I am not good for the kids, and that i am prolonging all this stuff to make him look like the bad guy, I should just move on and get over everything....and then in front of the kids and family or friends that come over, he acts like the doting husband always asking me if I did this, or do I need help with that, did you forget this ........I feel like I can't breath right anymore........