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Originally Posted by ReptileInYourHead
Hey fluffy
There’s a difference between bdsm and forced sex.
You said he’d never hit you or anything like that but you also said he threw ice water and slapped you in the face, did you consent to that?
Without clear boundaries bdsm can be very close to rape.
Sorry, but he sounds like a real ***.
Find a local guy who knows how to fulfill your desires in a safe way, if that is what you are stil into.
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To be honest i just want cuddles and like nice normal slightly kinky sex, not one where he calls me a *****. He tells me to make serious plans to come visit him, without anyone knowing. I trust him but i don´t trust myself. I should tell him this instead of some site but, it won´t give good results. I love him and maybe i can change his mind. Maybe he´ll become more like i want him to be.