I hadn't thought of it like that.

I just got super pissed that she'd have such a moronic response in general (I can't point to one specific moronic thing because her whole take on my question made me go and then she made it worse by just looking at me cluelessly when I tried to explain.......ugh).

Seriously, just THANK YOU for that! It makes me feel so much better coz I've been kicking myself wondering if I got upset at her for no good reason (which wouldn't be new but still).