This lady must be some piece o' work . . . to draw this out of you. I mean you sure don't give the impression of being an obstinate, contrary, difficult person to relate to. And you seem, at the very least, reasonably intelligent and someone who'ld be cooperative. But they're out there - those who fulfill the "Peter Principle:" "People tend to rise to their level of incompetence."

When I got dealt raw treatment on the job, I used to take two days off, just to send a message, sort of a "job action" in lieu of quitting, till I was ready to do that. I hope you find a situation where you'll be valued and shown that. I've had both kinds of jobs. Usually, when I left a place, I ended up being somewhere that was better in some way. (Though not always, but often enough.)

So she says she treats everyone the same way. That wouldn't surprise me. Sometimes coworkers can give you some validation. I got that from a coworker I never expected it from, after we both had quit and ran into each other at a subsequent job site. She told me our previous job environment had given her PTSD. All the time I had thought she was fine with the place.