Is it possible to delegate jobs to the insiders & have set times for them to be out, exception of crisis or therapy of course? Or have a rule where such & such can't be done until another is done, like a chore around the house.
Hotel is a good bet for you. If you could find a hot tub suite you could relax in a hot bath while having privacy. Rates are low now 'cos it's off-season.
Take care of yourself(ves).
Love,
RhysMadison