perhaps its not important if it was "abuse" rather than if you didnt know you had the tools to say no or change course. Maybe he wants you to see that you have and had the tools to get out, which can be empowering. I've heard my T say the less you currently see yourself as a victim, the more healthy you will become and setting boundaries and keeping yourself. Now maybe you really didnt have the ability to keep yourself safe. I dont know your situation. I'm just sharing how my T sees things.