I don't think that is how it is either Sunrise,.......(((hugs))) I am sorry there was not much of a connection, maybe he wanted to just get caught up and you wanted to talk about other things, like you said that was two weeks ago, you handled it, you put it in it's place, but he wanted to make sure it was put to rest and didn't leak out later down the road. I think therapy lasts until we feel we don't need it anymore, not the other way around. I could be wrong, but how are they to know if and when to stop seeing us, if we still have unresolved issues! I think because your T has gone throuhg a divorce (mine has also) he knows how painful things can be so in his mind maybe this is the most important thing he see's getting you through right now, the other stuff later. I know when I meet with my T that is all we talk about lately, even though there are other things I need and want to discuss with him, but he is trying so hard to help me through this process that is what is on his mind in sessions. Just a guess, wish things were different for you!
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