Sunrise - (((((((((i'm so sorry))))))) yeah, that is how therapy ended for me with the one T i felt very close to. She started doing the same things, telling me important personal things as if they were the first time (i had always been under the impression i was the *only* client she had told, so the meaning fell away). I felt more and more of this was happening, then she started posing some really odd therapy suggestions. i wasn't sure if she was gettin alzhimers or what was happening, but I felt i was losing her. I could never correct her when she made those mistakes because she geuninely thought she hadn't told me before or what ever. I finally said i was done and ended it. I wanted to stop therapy before losing her totally and just walk away with the good things i had had. We still send email updates every now and then... and about every 6 months we meet for tea just to catch up. but i have been very clear this is not therapy and i will not answer her theraputic-like questions while at tea. I love her, i care about her, i couldn't stand to lose her entirely.

I hope it is different for you sunrise. (((((((((hugs))))))))
Kiya