yeah - they did have to be very strong. Like when shopping, i tried to get them to not spend.. told them no, set boundaries, made them make choices "this or that -not both". But they had control over the legs and feet. I could not will my body out the door. They are very strong. They want what they want.
My old T always asked me "who paid for all these things?!" as if i just give in and let them, or if they are "steeling" from me. i mean, how odd a question is that. The system as a whole functions in parts - the system as a whole goes to work and earns money. The money belongs to the system and the system buys what it wants. I never really get that question. People don't understand when there are parts but the terminology is "I".... "i did this, I did that". "We" gets to them too much. but they don't understand "I"... then they want clairfication. I'm rambling - all the parts are trying to get their say in.