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Originally Posted by reb569
Many years ago I was blind-sided by a break up that really left me in a bad place. I won't go into details, but I actually changed my college plans to be closer to him 6 months before he broke up with me. I was devastated and pissed. Anyway, it took me a good six months to get over this break up. I had some issues with classes at first but within a couple weeks was able to keep my focus on them when I needed to. I spent a lot of time on my treadmill, sometimes over an hour a day basically cussing him out when I started, but by the end of each daily treadmill therapy session, I was calmer.
It all takes time. I'm so sorry that this has happened to you, especially in a time when you are interviewing for new jobs. Find your distraction, maybe research some SEO techniques, because we both know they are changing all the time. Try doing some walking, or other exercise. You'll get through this and in the end you'll be better off. Hugs out to you!
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Thank you...... I know that this will take time. I am barely managing and cannot stop thinking about him and what he's done to me. I've been going out a lot to help distract myself. This week I've GOT to focus on work. I took three days off of work because of him last week. I don't know how I am going to get through. The one thing that has helped is calling psychics, who tell me there is someone else who will come along that is MUCH better for me. It's the one thing that gives me hope. But this week I need to be better and actually get some work done.
Right now, I just want to strangle him.