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Originally Posted by ruby2011
1. I wish she said goodbye during my very last shift with her. I wish she told me how nice it was to work with me. She did that with other people who left.
2. I wonder if she misses me. A coworker left for college and another job. My supervisor said that she’s gonna have a withdrawal from not seeing her. Obviously, she misses her and was sad to see her go.
3. I hope that if she sees me again, she’ll be really happy to see me. She’ll say hi and ask me how i’ve been. She did that with yet another coworker who left the company and entered the store 6 months later as a customer.
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Here's a reality check:
1. You were stalking her. So it probably wasn't nice to work with you. And regardless of what she said to others when they left, she's idea no obligation to say it to you. You are not allowed to control her actions or feelings. Again, this is creepy stalker behavior.
2. I assure you she does not miss you. You made her uncomfortable and possibly even frightened her with tour stalking. She does not miss that.
3. She's not going to be happy to see you. You were a problem for her. She may be polite and professional, but she's not going to be happy you've come back, because she will again be worried that you are obsessing or stalking her. Frankly, you have no reason to go to that store again. If you go just to see how she reacts, then you're again stalking her. You should never go to that store again I'm surprised they gave you a 90 day limit at all. They did this to set a precedent for calling the police the next time you begin this behavior, not to.test you, but to protect her.
You're still not.getting it. People wish farewell and miss and are happy to see people that they enjoyed working with and built strong working friendships with. She did not have that with you. You were stalking her, upsetting her, doing inappropriate and scary behavior that quite possibly made her fear for her own safety. You were let go because you were harassing her with your stalking behavior. You were not friends with her. She does not like you. She is nice to you because she is a professional.
I hope this clears it up for you.
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