I want to reiterate something here:

By no means should you ever go back to that store, and especially not before the 90 days are up. Some others here have said they gave you that 90 day limit to teach you boundaries or limits. That is not the case. They gave you a 90 day limit to create documentation for which they can get a RESTRAINING ORDER against you for stalking the supervisor. You need to understand the legal implications of continuing to behave and think in this way. If you show up at that store, they WILL call the police and have you removed. You do not want this to involved law enforcement.

Your actions were not simply bad behavior or failing to follow the rules. Stalking is illegal. What you were/are doing in obsessing about this woman and stalking her was setting you up on a road to have legal action taken against you. Do you need/want an arrest on your record? A felony stalking conviction? Cause that's where this is going. You may think, "my intentions were good" but your behavior is the beginning of dangerous behavior. I am worried that if you continue to obsess and don't get what you want that you could become physically dangerous to her. For example, if she didn't wish you a happy birthday, how would you react. If you go in there after 90 days and she refuses to see or speak to you and hides out until you leave, how will you react?

Your behavior is scary. SCARY. The obsession is scary. I think you should write these consequences and possible ramifications to continuing to obsess down and every time you even start to think about her, pull that index card out and read it and remember that you don't want to ruin your life over an obsession.

I hope you will realize the seriousness and severity of this situation. I'm not trying to be mean. I know this perspective is kinda harsh, but I just really want you to understand the consequences and how other people are viewing it so you understand the danger that YOU are in by continuing to obsess and possibly (although hopefully not) acting on it.

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