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And by showing me the ropes, I don't just mean management. I meant work in general and possibly life.
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THIS is what your PARENTS should have done (or maybe they tried to do but you wouldnt listen?) This is what your therapist or counsellor should be doing now for you. Teaching you skills that you NEED in order to be successful in life. God doesnt just give us teachers in people we "look up to". He provides us teachers in anyone who touches our life.
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By friendship, I meant work friendship, which is kinda like friend in general but we don't hang out outside of work........
she actually helped me through my personal problems.
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The thing is that a person can be a very caring person & an acquaintance but it doesnt necessarily equate to A FRIENDSHIP. What many people even without ASD find that acquaintance levels are as numerous as the ASD spectrum & not always easy to define or understand.
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Back when she used to like me,
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Just because YOU FORCED HER to set the boundry she had to set doesnt mean she doesnt like you. It means she had to set the boundey & do what she did to TEACH YOU that your behavior was unacceptable because like with your parents trying to teach you, YOU WOULDNT LISTEN TO WHAT YOU WERE BEING TOLD until you were FORCED TO. She actually likes you or she woukdnt have bothered making this situation into a learning opportunity for you. She would have just had enough & FIRED YOU without all the learning opportunities that were put in place for you & making sour your caseworker knew & understood the situation.
YOU were the one WHO FORCED HER to respond to you in the way she did because your behavior was SO VERY UNACCEPTABLE & YOU WOULDNT LISTEN any other way.