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Originally Posted by MickeyCheeky
If your therapist will judge you then I'd say she isn't a really good therapist. As for coping, just remember that it wasn't your fault this happened, and that you can't really do anything about it. And of course, avoid contacting him in the future  |
Thank you, MickeyCheeky, for the supportive response
this was last summer before I deleted the apps we used to communicate so it's perfectly alright - absolutely no contact with him. He told me everything, I said I couldn't meet with him again and he perfectly understood. It's his fault for lying to me. I
never would have met him knowing he's a married man.
I wasn't going to hunt down the wives social media or something so that I could tell her about it as I don't think that's my place... though it did come across my mind. I'm just going to keep telling myself it wasn't my fault but hope it somehow doesn't destroy his family. I hope it doesn't as I really wouldn't want that to happen.