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Originally Posted by Whykeepgoing
. Thank you for your kind message. I will call him, I think. I just need to find the courage. Both to face him and the fact that I wasn’t there for her and also to be strong enough to be a friend to him. I’m afraid that I’m not strong enough to do either one, but you are right.
I just need to wade in and the tide will take me where it will. I couldn’t control what she did and I won’t be able to control what happens next. But if I don’t at least try to reach out to him, I won’t have done anything and that will eat at me forever, I think.
Ugh... I’m just gonna cry the whole time. This sucks so much.
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Do you live close enough to meet face to face? Or just call and let him know you are thinking of him and you will get a feel for what can go next, just be patient. Answers may not happen this call, or the next. Wait until the time is right for both of you. Yes, it will be hard having that conversation, crying just shows you are human and expressing your pain. No shame in that.
