thank you, all..... Erebos, I am so sorry that happened to you, but I'm glad you worked through it. And thank you for your empathy. Eskielover, thank you, too. I will NOT be so fooled in the future. Sprout, thank you, you're very kind to say that. (((((hugs everyone))))))

So I just heard from him. Now he claims that we didn't have enough common ground.. that he was stretching to feel connected with me towards the end. What BS. That cannot possibly be true, since we were very connected. Why did we even get engaged then???????? WTF??????