Those are HIS FEELINGS....you have yours based on your experience & yoyr feelings.

Feelings dont always make sense expecially when someone is trying to RATIONALIZE their behavior like he is. You kinda knew this guy was a loser for quite awhile now. He is just reinforcing that understanding & valudating those gut feelings you really didnt want to admit to.

I would look at what he says as the exclaimation point following THE END! With a dash of good riddence on top.