He gets them every other weekend, 1/2 of the Christmas holiday, every other spring break and every other thanksgiving. He gets three weeks in the summer, and my wife and I pay all of the out of pocket expenses for the medical bills.

On the child support, he pays what the state deems to be 40% of support because she makes more money that he does. He claims the IRS dependent deduction for the youngest kid, so why is he bitter - no idea.