The only reason I suggested depsration is because for some guys its a WAKE UP CALL that there is something briken that needs to be fixed. If he really loves you but wont go to therapy, sometimes separation will make them see yoyr REALITY. Some men need to be hit over the head before they will be willing to lusten to their wife especially is there is any feeling they have of superiority.

Usually finally getting their attention will get them into the therspy the marriage needs to survive.