Well you could tell him “ok our relationship isn’t working, now when can I expect my 10k back?” If he thought you two aren’t compatible then why the heck he took your money!!!!! Ask him that. Seems like not having common ground didnt stop him from using you. Wtf

Sure you don’t have enough common ground. He is homeless unemployed addicted moocher while you aren’t any of that. Tell him that you agree with him on that!

Loser