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Old Oct 31, 2017, 11:10 AM
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Originally Posted by Rose76 View Post
How long has it been since your mom passed away? Everyone has their own path to follow. Not all your pain is coming from grief over your mother. You had other sources of pain when she was still with you. Those other challenges are still there. It sounds like you have other things to recover from. Your mother could not have made your life free of pain, even if she had lived for ever. Do you have other people in your life who mean something to you?

Since 2013 of Jan or Dec I believe , and yes I do have to recover from other things but my Mom being there to help was more then enough and i was her Bulgarian Princess . Yes i have people very dear to me to now in my life and making new friends as well.

I think God put them into my life as i needed them for whichever .But you guys are helping so much im starting to realize that it was not my fault which i have believed in the past i could have not done much at all to stop her death but i have to let go my regrets as well which is the hardest thing to accept .But i am using my DBT skills now and working through the old worksheets .
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