I have been with T over two years and barely ever cry. When I do, it's the type of crying in which real tears never really roll down my cheeks. I remember the first time I really did cry. It was after about a year and a half, and one single tear rolled down my cheek. Yes to me that means "really did cry." I still struggle a lot with that. I express emotions such as anger, much easily in therapy, than I do overt sadness like that.