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Originally Posted by Trace14
Ooo this is a hard situation. Sadly if people have that type of personality when they are young, it only gets worse as they age. You've been given some good options here. Have you talked to your friend about what bothers you? I would try that before ignoring her. She will want to know what's going on, so will have to explain it to eventually. If you have told her how this behavior bothers you and she's not willing compromise , then yes it's time to get her out of your life and find friends that will be supportive.  |
I have tried talking to her when she says messed up things. She shuts me down quickly. I'm wrong she is right type stuff. You can't have a healthy friendship with stuff like this not to mention you have to avoid many conversation topics in fear that will cause a fight. I'm walking on egg shells....She is not the supportive type at all she frowns on it like its a weakness. I think its time to just go my way she won't change and she won't hinder me changing for the good and to be done with abuse of who ever it is...still sucks