Being in a supervisorary capacity is never an easy place to be, especially when over teenagers. Many times, their first jobs are difficult for them to fit into for a myriad of reasons.

I don't think they hate you per se, it's more that they hate restriction, responsibility, authority figures, actually having to work to get that weekly paycheck. It's a learning experience for them....they need to learn how to fit into society as a productive individual. Some learn it...some don't and will just float from job to job.

No one deserves to be called the names you were called. You did right by waiting until you and the offender were alone to chastise him for his obnoxious behavior. I have to be honest and say that if it were me he was talking to, he would have found his way out the door never to return as an employee again. He created a hostile work environment in my eyes.

Have you spoken with your boss about this situation or anything at all regarding management decisions? Do you have his/her support? If not, why?

Learning how to deal with kids is a tough one, but it's not impossible. Sometimes its a matter or making the first move to reach out and understand them, communicate with them in positive ways. It's not always easy...no doubt about it, but I've learned through life that you get more bees with honey and patience

Wishing you much luck at work. I so understand where you are coming from and how you are feeling. Don't forget to breathe!!


sabby