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Originally Posted by ruby2011
One person blocked me on Facebook. Another person deleted me. Evidently they didn’t like the post I made about my supervisor. Also, my supervisor prolly told others bad stuff about me. Cuz when I was still working there, I heard stuff (good and bad) about former employees. People talk amongst themselves.
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I understand the need to ask for sympathy. We all do. We all want to be understood and we want our pain to be recognized BUT the audience matters.
Why do you just post here, on PC? This is a totally anonymous platform and from what I can tell, PC is filled with very wise and compassionate people. Even if someone judges you unfairly it is not as hurtful as a friend deleting you on facebook. When you reveal that much about yourself on facebook, you are sending an open invitation that says “judge me”. And people react to your problems. And from what you are telling us, they react negatively.
I am sure a similar occurrence could happen to me, if I chose to share my very intimate and personal problems on FB (don’t even have FB).
Also, why do you share that much of YOUR private life with people on facebook? That is way too many people having access to your very intimate fears and issues.
I suggest that you keep your life struggles, especially your relationships, to yourself and only share it with your T and with us. We all care about you here at PC and we will be here for you.