I haven't been in here in a long time. I must say at 31 yrs old, my life has gotten a lot better. Some things I am confused/or a bit embarrassed about. A transgendered woman I'm seeing who is 54 still has a penis but it rarely gets hard due to hormone meds.

She uses an 8 in strap-on on me. My vagina is really tight as I never and don't ever want to have kids; she also knows of my past bad sexual history too, plus I wasn't sexually experienced enough. When having sex, my legs still tighten like its protecting my vagina from penetration but she has been very gentle with me we mesh very well sexually. We have done different positions that I have never experienced before.

When I get penetrated deeply, it feels like I have to urinate and I don't want to end up urinating during orgasming either. I have been learning to relax during sex I do trust her a lot with me. Do you ladies feel like urinating during sex? I try to urinate before and after sex. Do I have anything to be embarrassed about?

Sometimes it's hard for me to tell if I orgasm, I feel my vagina throbbing after each thrust of penetration. I feel I focus too much on my penetration and trying to force myself to orgasm. The 8 in dildo went really deep to my cervix which felt amazing I can feel the sensation around my pelvic area sometimes too much. I do have a pretty sensitive vagina which is why my legs tend to close up, is there anything I can do about its sensitivity?