Just wanted to say I spent 7 years single healing and being entirely selfish after that relationship broke down.
It was the best time I have spent on myself.
It taught me exactly what I want, what I am willing to compromise on , what I absolutely won't compromise on.
That I am fine on my own so I am not afraid to stand up for what I want.
I am sure not everyone needs to take that long, but it definitely did me untold good, and taught me ALOT about myself.