honestly knowing what happened even from all that you've said would require knowing what they are thinking which is impossible. Sounds like an unfortunate situation with the ladies and perhaps as vague and/or ambiguous they are about how they feel about you it seems to me that you probably dodged a bullet by dropping both of them from your social life. look for people to be with that are more clear on what they think and want in life and with friends and you'll be much happier and less confused.