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Old Nov 01, 2017, 11:32 AM
Anonymous44086
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Originally Posted by Ototot View Post
Ok Just read my risk assessment/summary and it says I used to offer oral sex to men to secure their time and do handyman jobs. Yes I did in the past when completely intoxicated by alcohol. But these days I don't get drunk for about the last 5 months and I haven't been offering oral sex to men for some time maybe 4 years or more. Can't help but feel ashamed of myself. Wondering what my care coordinator OT thinks of me now.... well I can only attribute it to being sexually abused by my dad in childhood and sexually harassed by him....because why else would I do that??? I'm feeling like a crap piece because maybe I used to abuse myself offering oral sex to men when drunk. What's your perspective of things? Please advise. Thanks
"Why else would people do that?" Because they enjoy it. Some of them. Does not sound like you enjoyed it at all, though. Good you stopped doing it. I used to do sexual things i´m not proud of for god knows what reason, but it´s in the past and all i can do is try my best to never think of it. It´s not like you´re "tainted" forever or whatever, people do really change. i believe.
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