I'm coining this phrase: cold socializing. It means going out to a social function from a period of not being around people.
F'rinstance, I can usually go to a happy hour straight from work without a fuss. I'm up, I'm dressed, I'm around people, there's momentum to continue.
But I have high anxiety going out on say a Saturday night after not being around people. I hate it in fact. Today I took the day off from work and then attended a social function for my work division...I found it excruciating. Even after I left, my anxious feelings lingered...so much so I wish I hadn't gone.
Anyone relate?
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