Hi,
I get where you're at. For me to choose stability I have to accept that some weight gain is inevitable. I hate hate hate it but can't seem to change it.
Sitting down with your Pdoc is a good idea. I've tried a number of meds. I used to be on a number of meds. We've consolidated them down to Lithium (2 times a day) and Seroquel (4 times a day). I use Seroquel and Valium as PRN's.
Lithium is weight neutral for me but Seroquel not. My pdoc is doing her best in avoiding prescribing me as many weight gain meds.