I've had over 20 years of therapy with 5 different T's and never once cried. We didn't show emotions in my family either. My current T sometimes asks me, when I say that I wish I could cry in the session: What would the tears be saying? She knows I want to cry, but can't. T's know we feel stuff, but can't express it or don't know exactly what we feel. I hate that "where do you feel it in your body" also! I say "I don't know" usually.