i know how hard having someone you care about make a choice that you would never want for them...
my middle son is having really serious problems in his marriage... and in an attempt to keep things together he is taking more then his share of responsibility... i am so proud of him for taking responsibility... but... if he takes it all then his wife doesnt have to take any... and she doesn't have to change... your friend made the choice to cut... as hard is that is ... it wasn't your fault and you don't deserve to be punished... he is lucky to have a freind who can truly understand how much he was hurting to get to that place... stay safe selfy...lyn