I have been living in London for seven years.

My children live in France, near Paris.

When I go to France to see them, when I leave to come back here, my son cries.

He is 13.

Currently I have no work and can evaluate different possibilities.

I may even go back to France to stay near my children.

It would be another adventure because to find work, even as software developer, is not easy.

I'm concerned about my relationship with my ex-wife.

My son would like to live with me, if I go back to France.

What do you think?

What if my ex reacts badly?

What if she forbids my son to live with me or even to let him see me at weekends?

Last time I went to France to see my children, she treated me badly.