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Originally Posted by Fluffyraincloud
Thank you so much for your thoughtful reply. You make a very good point, i should just relax and realize that what i did as desperate 14 year old does not define who i am now. I´ve changed a lot after all.
I am angry at myself but also, the more i think about it, i´m angry at those internet men too. I told them my age, i never lied about it. I want to cut them up and burn them in a volcano.
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Hey, you're more than welcome!!
But still remind yourself of how strong you have been/are in making it through all of that to the "other side". Absolutely it does not define you, you are
so,
so,
so, much more than any of that but it does say that in the end you have been one of the stronger/more resiliant one's to make it through all of that and hey.........inner strength!!! And again, my respect to you!!!
As for your feelings about the internet men.........completely understand that 1001% but maybe you could try to switch the focus (not easy I know!!) to focusing on just keeping people around you who do genuinely care about you and your feelings and appreciate/value you/treat you in the way that you REALLY deserve??
Treat it as a positive turning point in your life?? You've made it through......shown true strength.......and now your present/future can/deserves to be so much better
And hey, in the hard times, we on PC can also be here for you now!!!