Fluffy, your desire to please others is becoming apparent as an unconscious behavioural pattern. Even when it comes to your parents.
It is nice to try to make your parents proud but just make sure it is not at odds with who you wish to be. Though, knowing your true self is tricky business when you are struggling as many of us here are.
Someone gave you great advice, take a step away from the computer, from online anything, from the things that you think will make your folks proud, and focus on your own needs and wants.
What is it you want fluffy? And what are you going to do to get that?